A true story

An ink and watercolour drawing of Butterwalk, a monarch butterfly whose wings never opened, standing on a leaf.

Butterwalk

The butterfly who never flew.

This is Butterwalk. He was a real monarch butterfly. When he came out of his chrysalis, something had gone wrong. His wings were stuck together, and they never opened. He was never able to fly.

He lived with our family for two weeks, a cold winter in the South Island of New Zealand. My daughter Anaia, aged 13, looked after him. She kept him company and stayed close so that he wouldn't have to do any of it alone.

He shouldn't have lasted. He went days without food. He survived two frosts out in the garden. Twice we went out to collect his little body, certain he was gone. And twice he was still there, legs moving slowly, quietly refusing to quit.

When his strength came back, he charged around absolutely loving life! He climbed out of his container, up the leaves, and then onto our bookshelf. He leapt off it, probably thinking that this time he could fly.

He was only with us a short while. But he taught us something we'll hold onto for ever. No matter how rough the hand you're dealt, dig deep, keep going, and make the most of the days you get.

The post that started it

Where it began

This is the post I wrote the day Butterwalk died. Over three million people read it in 24 hours.

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What people said

Thousands wrote back

A butterfly who couldn't fly reached people all over the world. Here are a few of the messages they left, with surnames blurred for their privacy.

Facebook comment from Sharon: Charlie Brown!!! I am sending you and your daughter a huge virtual hug!! Spirit to Spirit.
Facebook comment from Vicki: So sad. This is the sweetest story. The fact your daughter stayed with Butterwalk makes th
Facebook comment from Jess: Reading this had me in tears, but strangly had me looking at the brighter sides of life to
Facebook comment from Trish: Bro, how dare you make me sob like this so early in the day.
Facebook comment from Barbara: Aww poor Butterwalk. He'll fly in Heaven in a beautiful butterfly garden. Since my furbaby
Facebook comment from Teresa: OMW.... I teared up..... what a lovely story..... blessed me no end. thank you
Facebook comment from Rebecca: I feel like butterwalk. Im 58. I was a black diomond skier, a 50 mile bike rider on weeken
Facebook comment from Gemma: Absolutely beautiful touching story, i got a tear to my eyes i know all about being dealt
Facebook comment from Claudia: This is one of the most beautiful stories ive ever read. His life was worth it and we can
Facebook comment from Susan: Butterwalk is flying now across the Rainbow Bridge.
Facebook comment from Nicky: I'm crying over an insect I've never met.
Facebook comment from Pauline: Oh this is so sad but a beautiful story too thank you for loving him
Facebook comment from Sharon: You cried because you are a decent human being. It's empathy
Facebook comment from Kathy: In a world of so much animal abuse and cruelty this story truly is 'Salve for the Soul'. A
Facebook comment from Wanda: What a beautiful story, it actually made my eyes well up. Life is so very precious. Thank
Facebook comment from Whitney: What a beautiful story. Thank you for sharing.
Facebook comment from Jennifer: Im not crying, you're crying!!
Facebook comment from Joni: Thank you Charlie Brown and Anaia, you have hearts and soul. You showed that Butterwalk me
Facebook comment from Kelly: RIP Butterwalk, you melted many hearts
Facebook comment from Squirrel: I'm crying. In the next world, Butterwalk is flying, soaring high. X

For anyone whose wings didn't open —
Walk anyway. Climb anyway.
And when you find your bookshelf...Jump!